“The Curse of Four: A Decade of Loss and Struggle”

It has been a long time since my last update. A lot of things have happened within a short period of time. My father died in July, and my grandmother died in October. What else? I am still financially struggling because of my wrong decisions and unforeseen circumstances. The more I think about it, the more I realize I have bad luck with years that have four (4) in them.

On the year 1994, I was too young to remember, but it was during this time when my older cousin died at 24. It was 2004 when I almost stopped studying in college after an accident happened, my father lost his job, and we didn’t have money to pay my tuition. It was 2014 when I went home to Philippines and things didn’t turn out so well, leaving me in despair and in sadness f0r so many years and today 2024 my father died without a hint or a sign, I was in debt and my grandmother died after just three months.

Some might say they were just coincidences, but I know it wasn’t.  I want to write more, but it makes me sad to remember things, maybe some other time.

Empowering Women through Shapewear: Feelingirl’s Commitment to Body Positivity

Shapewear is a must-have for giving your appearance a boost in the form of an almost flawless figure. But, the effect of your Feelingirl body shapers is deeper than that! It’s all about improving your self-image and confidence through a seamless body shaper or bodysuit.

Feelingirl fulfils its promise of giving you a feeling of empowerment through your clothing. It offers the best quality and the most effect slimming pieces that bring an improvement to your physical personality. So, you feel happier, more confident, and more positive every day.

1. Body Positivity and Shapewear

Body positivity comes when you feel happy just the way you are, instead of longing for a celebrity-like figure. This is achieved with shapewear because it supports your body and improves your figure. It gives you a feeling of being perfect the way you are through supportive undergarments, slimming bodysuits, and other comfortable pieces.

2. Feelingirl Shapewear Designed for All Body Types

Feelingirl doesn’t leave anyone out when it comes to sizes and styles of shapewear. It is not designed for just one group of gals who are already perfect. Instead, there are sizes for everyone because all of us deserve to look great.

3. The Role of Shapewear in Enhancing Confidence

When you no longer have a bulging tummy because of the best shapewear for tummy control, your natural confidence comes out. Similarly, butt-lifting pieces and supportive bras add more perfection to your figure. So, when you start to look great, you won’t need to avoid meeting friends, attending weddings, or going out for any event. Thanks to Feelingir’s effective shapewear, you’ll have a lot of confidence to make an appearance everywhere.

4. Shapewear as a Tool for Self-Love and Acceptance

No matter what anyone else says about your physical appearance, you will be happy in your skin with the perfection Feelingirl shapers bring. You will stop competing with others or following celebrities, because you’ll start accepting and loving your own particular body type.

This is all because of the ease these shapewear pieces bring to your everyday dressing routine. It becomes easy to achieve a curvier and smoother silhouette with the help of shaping bodysuits. Plus you feel comfortable in the high-quality fabric of these products that makes you feel liberated.

5. Choosing the Right Feelingirl Shapewear for Your Body

In order to achieve the sense of confidence and empowerment, the right shapewear has to be chosen from Feelingirl.  All you need to do is accept and understand your body type so that you can choose your seamless wireless bra and bodysuits accordingly. Then, you should also understand your size requirements because only the right-sized shapewear can be successful at giving you effective results.

Final Thoughts

Shapewear brings improvement to your physical appearance and gives you better self-confidence. When you are happy with your look, you get a feeling of empowerment and positivity. Feelingirl fulfils your expectations by giving your body shaping products that can make everything perfect for you.

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Revamping Your Space: Creating a Harmonious Bedroom

The bedroom is more than just a place to sleep; it’s a sanctuary for rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation, and decorating it is an opportunity to create a personal private haven that reflects your sense of taste and style. Perhaps you wish to walk on the wild side with animal print, camo, or zebra bedding, or feel like royalty in a luxurious bed covered with velvet pillows and a satiny spread. Since the bedroom is not a common area like a living room or dining room, you can express yourself through unique décor; with new textiles like bedding, rugs, and window treatments you can change the look of a room in a few minutes.

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When you want to update the look of a room it is easy to think about using a new paint or wallpaper – the only problem is that it means a lot of work and can be a huge hassle.  To quickly update the look of a mundane bedroom, consider investing in a new bed ensemble – typically they consist of a quilt or comforter, a bed skirt, and one or two decorative pillow shams. Even if you are not a design maven you can buy with confidence since they were designed perfectly from the bed ensembles, prints, patterns, and colors they coordinate perfectly. You may also wish to consider the simple addition of a padded headboard or a bed canopy – these are easy to install and can highlight the bed.

Choosing the right bed for your bedroom makeover is a crucial step in creating a stylish and functional space. By assessing your needs, exploring various styles, selecting the perfect mattress, and incorporating complementary bedding and accessories, you can transform your bedroom into a comfortable and visually appealing retreat.

If you wake up tired every day it might be because you have a tired foam or older mattress – with proper care good mattresses are designed to last for five to ten years but many people use them far longer.  There are several ways to prolong the life of a mattress; always use a mattress protector to help reduce dirt and dust and keep the actual mattress as clean as possible. Older mattresses should be rotated and turned to even out the wear patterns – this is especially important if one user is far heavier or larger than the other.

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 If your mattress leaves something to be desired but a new one is not in the budget or if you wish to experience a better night’s sleep, then a mattress enhancer such as a memory foam or feather mattress topper is a great idea. There have been many technological advances with certain styles designed to alleviate motion transfer when one sleeping partner rolls over; others are designed to reduce pressure points and soothe aching muscles. With a new mattress topper, you can get many of the same benefits as those offered by the fancy new pillow top mattresses without needing to actually buy a new mattress.

Many things contribute to facilitating a good nights’ sleep. Experts say you should use the bedroom for sleeping, not as a place to work or even read in bed; the room should be as dark as possible so room darkening shades are often recommended. The room should be quiet and comfortable – you may wish to incorporate some elements of feng shui by strategically placing bathroom, wall and other mirrors throughout the bedroom to make it appear larger and more tranquil.

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In Vastu Shastra, an ancient Indian architectural science, the design and placement of the bedroom are considered crucial for ensuring a harmonious living environment. By adhering to Vastu principles, you can create a bedroom that promotes restful sleep, supports well-being, and fosters positive relationships.  A well-designed bedroom according to Vastu can lead to:

  • Improved Sleep Quality: Proper bed placement and a clutter-free environment contribute to better sleep, which is vital for overall health and well-being.
  • Reduced Stress: A harmonious bedroom space helps in reducing stress levels, fostering a sense of calm and relaxation.
  • Enhanced Relationship Harmony: Vastu Shastra suggests that a well-designed bedroom can improve relationships by creating a more balanced and supportive environment.

Designing a bedroom according to Vastu Shastra principles can create a space that supports relaxation, promotes restful sleep, and fosters a harmonious atmosphere. By carefully considering the location, bed placement, color schemes, and use of natural elements, you can enhance the positive energy in your bedroom. While Vastu Shastra offers a valuable framework, the ultimate goal is to create a space that feels personally comforting and conducive to your well-being. Integrating these principles into your bedroom design can lead to a more balanced, peaceful, and fulfilling living environment.

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My Father and His Hypertension Attacked

It was one mid-afternoon at work when my mother told me that they were going to town, for a check-up.  My father woke up feeling unwell, and upon checking in our barangay health center, his blood pressure was higher than normal it spiked up to 220/100, which is already a hypertensive crisis, and immediate action was necessary so he was given a referral to the town center.

 As expected there was a long line of people, and after waiting for several minutes, he finally got to the receiving person where he was interviewed and asked when the personnel took his referral, I felt a bit worried because I could see distress in her face, she moves quickly and immediately checked my father’s blood pressure and then inform the public doctor about it. My father was given a small tablet to take, and while waiting I asked about my father’s situation, then I was given another tablet and instructed to give it to my father after a few minutes and to inform her when the time had passed, so she can check his blood pressure again.

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People come and go, and yep we are still there, my father’s blood pressure was still a bit high. Anyway, my father was given a referral to undergo a laboratory test, and upon looking at the referral with many checks in it, my mind started to calculate how much are we going to spend to have it done.

It was a good thing the kind and jolly doctor was very friendly, and yes he was the doctor who I spoke with regarding my health issue. He asked my father if he had money, and I replied we are poor, haha. The doctor jokingly says, maybe my father is poor, but I am not which I laugh it out, and says I am poor too.

To make it short, the doctor instructed us what to do and where to go.  We went to the public hospital right after, to find out what we needed to avail the service, and since my father need’s to do fasting, we decided to have it done next week without knowing the laboratory and the office is opened during weekends.

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Sick and Dealing with Stress, Anxiety and Toxicity

There has just been so much stress for me these past few weeks, it was all maybe collected from different reasons, stress from work, at home from people, etc., It was tiring already dealing with immaturity from my other workmates who didn’t know how to stop throwing jokes, it was toxic and it made me sick. My body couldn’t handle the stress and anxiety, I remember experiencing the same thing a few years back when I quit my job.

When I went to the center for a check-up a few weeks ago, I was told to visit a specialist and have some tests. I didn’t follow the referral due to different factors and being afraid to do it, haha. It stopped, but when it became toxic again at work, I was not drinking enough water, I seldom used the toilet, been drinking colas, it all started again it felt like my body was deteriorating.

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I went to an herb doctor the other day after much deliberation on what to do, where I was told I got bewitched by an unseen being, was told it was a kind one, but I was asked to offer a white male chicken which is hard to find, no wonder I have been looking to my cousin’s white chicken (not pure) a few days ago before visiting a herb doctor, as if my instinct already know what do I need, lol.

At home, I decided to do herbal treatment, I looked for grass, boiled it, and made some tea out of it. I also bought vitamins to boost my immune system, slowly I am feeling better, but I was feeling weak and my emotions were low, wasn’t feeling happy anymore, and I was losing my vibe and myself. I am becoming aloof, distant, unobservant, and cold. The truth is, I decided to establish my boundaries and never care at all about what they said, I tried not to react as possible, I held my emotions and was just thankful to have a good support system, I have this one friend who understands my ordeal and who always advise me what to do.

Anyway, I don’t wanna dwell with me being sick, because I believe we have our own timeline, if we will die, we will die, no excuses.

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3 Tips For Preparing To Live Outside The U.S. For The First Time

If you’ve lived in American all your life, there might be a part of you that yearns to know what it’s like to live beyond the borders of the U.S. Especially if you love to travel and have already spent some time in other countries, living abroad for a while might seem like the logical next step to you. And who knows, you might even choose to stay permanently. But if you’re just starting off on this journey, there are likely a few things you’re unsure about or that are concerning to you. So to help make this process a little easier to bear, here are three tips for preparing to live outside the U.S. for the first time.

Set Up For Your New Life Abroad

Before you decide that you’re going to move to a particular country, it’s a good idea to begin setting up your life there, including finding a job and a decent place that you might like to live. According to Jennifer Lachs, a contributor to GoAbroad.com, there are tons of work abroad programs available that can help you line up a job while you’re living in this new country. If you work for a large company in the U.S., you might want to see if there’s a chance for simply transferring to an office in another country. And since it can be hard to find a place to live merely by looking online, you may want to book a hotel for the first few nights that you’ll be in this new country so you can get a first-hand look at a few places you’ve been considering before you make a permanent choice.

Prepare The Legal Logistics

Living in a different country is very different from just visiting that country for a short period of time, especially if you don’t necessarily have a timeframe of when you may or may not be leaving the country. Because of this, it’s important that you get all the legal logistics taken care of before you arrive. According to Elizabeth Preske, a contributor to Travel and Leisure, this could include applying for or renewing your passport, securing a visa, setting up a bank account, finding the right medical insurance, and making copies of any important documents you may need to bring with you.

Get Ready For Potential Culture Shock

Even if you’ve been to this country before, living there could be a whole different ball game for you. With this in mind, Diane Schmidt, a contributor to The Spruce, suggests that you prepare yourself for potential culture shock. To best handle this, you may want to start learning any new languages as soon as you can, do as much research about the area and customs as you’re able to, and prepare yourself to be open-minded and accepting of things you may not be familiar with or easily understand.

If you’re considering moving outside of the U.S., use the tips mentioned above to prepare yourself for this new adventure.

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The Best Shapewear for Your Personal Comfort And Style

Shapewear is an important contributor to the glam industry today. They collect you and your body into a fit that makes you want to dress every day. The style forward takes a plunge with a good-fit dress and a shaping dress contours you like no other.

However, not every shapewear is worthy and gives your body the attention to detail it deserves. Get your dream body and exhibit confidence in Popilush’s famous line of shapewear clothing. The diverse range of dresses and styles makes it a top contributor to fashion and functionality. Here are the best bodysuit shapewear options for you.

Built-in Shapewear Off-Shoulder Dress

Featuring an off-shoulder cut and a bodycon-fit dress, this built-in shapewear ticks all the boxes for fashion and comfort. The off-shoulder neck gives a wide neck look for styling. The dual mesh-control contours the tummy giving it a flattening look.

Product link: https://www.popilush.com/products/built-in-shapewear-long-sleeve-modal-midi-dress

The overlapped fabric at the crotch makes it easy to open for restroom visits. The leg contour panels are also a great addition to it. This shaping dress is made from sustainable clothing with a mixture of nylon and spandex.

Built-in shapewear Leather Bodysuit Or Midi Skirt Or Mini Skirt Or Leggings

Leather speaks of luxury and top-trending design. So does it in the bodysuits. The bra-free design is elastic and has a built-in mesh-free shapewear. It contours your tummy and thighs in a way a model has.

Product link: https://www.popilush.com/collections/bodysuits/products/built-in-shapewear-leather-bodysuit-or-midi-skirt-or-mini-skirt-or-leggings

This leather bodysuit is multi-purpose and can be used as a top with a mini skirt, leggings, and pants. This shaping dress is made up of sustainable fabric which is 62% Nylon and 38% Spandex. You can rock every nighttime party in this leather bodysuit because leather is the fashion here to stay. This is one of the best bodysuits shapewear out there.

Built-in Shapewear and Shine Dress and Bodysuit

The knotted style dress shaping dress is perfection. The mid-knot is aesthetic with a broad sleeveless finish made in leather. The high elastic range makes it an easy yet durable outfit that you can wear on multiple occasions.

Product link: https://www.popilush.com/products/built-in-shapewear-shine-dress-or-bodysuit

The dress is easy to put on and take off, all thanks to the soft fabric and sustainable fabric. The dress has a V-neck and a covered back which is modest. It has four variations including a thong bodysuit, slip maxi dress long sleeves, and twisted maxi dress. All the right reasons to invest in this. You can add contrasting accessories like gold-colored earrings with it to complete the look.

Built-In Shapewear One Shoulder Split Modal Maxi Dress

The Built-In Shapewear One Shoulder Split Modal Maxi Dress has a one-shoulder design. One shoulder is ultimately modish and chic. It reveals your beauty bones and shows off a contoured look.

Product link: https://www.popilush.com/products/built-in-shapewear-one-shoulder-split-modal-maxi-dress

This dress’s stitching provides an hourglass finish and fit. The built-in shapewear and mesh control especially on the stomach. The look completes with high slits at the side to ease mobility. The booty lift is contouring and does not compromise on your body, unlike other shapewear in the market. This dress is promising in its shape and chic look.

Here are the top trending shapewear dresses for easy style that prioritize your body and assure self-love everywhere you go.

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Feeling Sick, Toxic and Tired

There was influenza-like disease (cough, body pain, sore throat, and fever) hit the country, and we are not excused for it, it was the end of October when I felt sick and tired. It started with body pain, headache, and recurring fever in the afternoon, was feeling sick but I was still going to work because I needed to, we were beating a deadline, and we had to submit the list of drivers for the fuel subsidy from the national government.

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Prior to being sick and feverish, I was already feeling toxic at work for different reasons, and maybe it was one of the reasons why my immune system went down the drain, as I don’t normally have a fever.

Anyway, sometimes I have wondered what life would be like if I continued working at home, instead of working outside of my comfort zone. Nobody knows, but the introverted me loves staying at home rather than being outside and draining my energy. Then I realized, it is going to be more toxic at home looking after my niece and listening to my mother, haha.

My Mother Being Sick and Hospitalized

Our health is the center of our life and being healthy should be part of our overall lifestyle, but that isn’t always the case, we tend to abuse our body and health without realizing our money won’t be enough if our health deteriorates.

A week ago early in the morning, my mother complained of stomach ache and it continued to bother her so she and my sister went to a doctor for a check-up, but that check-up turned to hospital confinement.  She was hospitalized for a simple stomach ache,  which turned out to be acute gastroenteritis of the abdomen.

There was a little drama before her confinement because I told her to seek a second opinion and if ever she needed to be confined I would like her to go to the public hospital or the hospital owned by our boss, it’s private, but at least I maybe could ask our boss for a help through a discount.

My mother didn’t want to be confined, if not to her doctor’s choice of hospital, it was her doctor since she had a stroke a few years ago, and maybe she is already at ease with this doctor, and her experience with public hospital confinement a few years ago didn’t please her, so yes I was left no choice but to agree with her caprice, rather than seeing her sick at home without knowing her case is serious or not.

She was confined for almost three days and two nights, and our bill was in the ceiling, when we requested our bill it was ₱35,000.00, and I momentarily exited my body because I didn’t know where to get that amount, with the help of the doctor and a few of the hospital employees they thought us where to ask for medical help, it might not be enough, but at least the burden was lessened and with a lot of people lining up asking for assistance  my sister and I have to be absent for a day so we can process everything.

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My Blogs Are Down Because of Expensive Hosting

My blog was down for almost a month because of my problem with my hosting provider, the monthly fee doubled and it was too expensive for me having no fixed income online, I canceled my hosting asked for a refund, and moved to a new hosting provider which is a way cheaper, but when I started moving my websites, things didn’t turn out well, the coding was broken leaving my blogs without images and cluttered.

I’ve looked for another hosting option and I found this new hosting provider, a little cheaper than the one I purchased less than a month ago and was compatible as well, my websites run smoothly without leaving an error, my only problem was I forgot to back-up my WordPress themes, so right now I am using the older version which is not designed to mobile readers.

I hope my new hosting provider will not give me a headache in the coming days or else I will be left without a choice but to say goodbye to my blogs.

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